“Confusion is on me” vs. “I am confused.” Here’s a story of why the choice matters.

There are ways to answer the question, “Who am I” that will propel you forward. But others will hold you back.

In today’s blog, I share one way to distinguish the two.

When there is a difference of opinion, it can lead to division in a relationship. It can also provide an opportunity to cultivate closeness, connection, and deep meaningful conversation. Here’s three tips for healthy conversations.

Regardless of the decade of life you’re in, there are seasons of life behind you. There are also the season present and the seasons ahead. Here are 3 tips for making the transitions with grace and confidence.

"But I don't feel like doing it?"

How often do you say this?

In this blog post, I share an important tip for moving beyond the defeat of "I don't feel like it."

When you want to move forward, gain momentum, make progress, you must do this one thing.

It's non-negotiable.

It's can also be difficult and challenging.

You must do it anyway.

What is it?

When you want to change your habitual reactions, you must first do this one thing. In today’s blog, I explore what that is.

Our reactions when faced with a frustrating situation can become habits. Sometimes we’re happy with those habits. Sometimes, not so much. How do you change them?

We contribute to the joy (or lack of) of our environments with words, intonation, and attitude. What are you contributing?

Sometimes habits, even good ones, lose their value at different points of life. Is it time to evaluate some of yours?

Are you finding the return to in-person life a challenge but don’t really understand why? Maybe this is your answer.

There are many reasons one might find themselves resisting the call to engage in complete self-care, i.e., self-care the goes, “beyond the massage.” In part IV of this series, I share another reason for resistance.

In the third segment of this series, I talk about another reason it can be challenging to take care of ourselves in ways that go “beyond the massage.”

Self-care that goes beyond the massage requires us to overcome some challenging emotions. In part II of the series, I share one of those.

Self-care is a popular topic and usually suggests things like massage, pedicures and other enjoyable activities. But deeply meaningful and complete self-care goes beyond the massage.

A two-minute cold shower each day is a habit that some would consider unnecessary; crazy even. So, why do I do it?

You have two or more good and valuable options. But some are the best for you, others are not. Declining any of them means saying ‘no’ to someone - maybe even someone you like.

This is what happened to me. In this post, I share some of my story.

Some days we get to be the one others turn to for support. Other days, we are the one who needs to lean on another. Are you willing to let yourself?